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Head in Japanese: 頭あたま (あたま), 頭あたまに来くる, 頭あたまが固かたい, and 頭あたまが上あがらない

"Head" in Japanese is 頭あたま (あたま). It is at the center of many expressions about thinking and feelings: 頭あたまがいい is "smart", 頭あたまに来くる ("it comes to my head") is "to get mad", 頭あたまが固かたい ("a hard head") is "rigid, inflexible", and 頭あたまを下さげる ("to lower your head") is to bow or apologize.

In English, your head is where you think. In Japanese it is also where you get angry, where you feel indebted, and how you show respect. Many 頭あたま idioms describe personality and relationships, so they come up constantly in conversation. This post covers the body part and the expressions you will hear most.

How do you say "head" in Japanese?

What does 頭あたま mean?

頭あたま (あたま) is a head. It can also mean the mind or brain.

頭あたまをぶつけた。 — I hit my head. (casual) 頭あたまが痛いたい。 — I have a headache. (casual)

頭あたまが痛いたい can also mean "this is a headache", for a troublesome problem: 頭あたまが痛いたい問題もんだい.

What does 頭あたまがいい mean?

頭あたまがいい (あたまがいい) means smart. For the difference from 賢かしこい, see smart in Japanese.

彼女かのじょは頭あたまがいい。 — She's smart. (casual)

What does 頭あたまを使つかう mean?

頭あたまを使つかう (あたまをつかう), "to use your head", means to think hard or think cleverly.

もっと頭あたまを使つかって。 — Use your head a bit more. (casual)

What are the most useful 頭あたま idioms?

What does 頭あたまに来くる mean?

頭あたまに来くる (あたまにくる), "it comes to my head", means to get angry or be infuriated.

あの言い方いいかたは頭あたまに来きた。 — The way he said that made me mad. (casual)

For other anger words, see angry in Japanese.

What does 頭あたまが固かたい mean?

頭あたまが固かたい (あたまがかたい), "a hard head", means inflexible or set in one's ways. The opposite is 頭あたまが柔やわらかい (あたまがやわらかい), flexible-minded.

父ちちは頭あたまが固かたい。 — My father is set in his ways. (casual) 子こどもは頭あたまが柔やわらかい。 — Kids are flexible thinkers. (casual)

What does 頭あたまを下さげる mean?

頭あたまを下さげる (あたまをさげる), "to lower your head", means to bow, apologize or humbly ask for something.

頭あたまを下さげて謝あやまった。 — I bowed my head and apologized. (casual)

Phrase Reading Meaning
頭あたま あたま head
頭あたまがいい あたまがいい smart
頭あたまが痛いたい あたまがいたい headache; troublesome
頭あたまを使つかう あたまをつかう to think hard
頭あたまに来くる あたまにくる to get mad
頭あたまが固かたい あたまがかたい inflexible
頭あたまを下さげる あたまをさげる to bow, apologize
頭あたまが上あがらない あたまがあがらない to be indebted

Beyond the basics

What does 頭あたまが上あがらない mean?

頭あたまが上あがらない (あたまがあがらない), "can't raise my head", means you owe someone so much that you can never stand up to them.

母ははには頭あたまが上あがらない。 — I owe my mother too much to ever argue with her. (casual)

What does 頭あたまが真っ白まっしろになる mean?

頭あたまが真っ白まっしろになる (あたまがまっしろになる), "my head goes pure white", means your mind goes blank, often from nerves.

面接めんせつで頭あたまが真っ白まっしろになった。 — My mind went blank in the interview. (casual)

What does 先頭せんとう mean?

先頭せんとう (せんとう) is the front of a line or group. 頭あたま here means "the top, the lead".

列つらの先頭せんとうに並ならんだ。 — I lined up at the front of the line. (casual)

Common mistakes

  • Saying 頭あたまが来きた for "I got mad". It is 頭あたまに来きた.
  • Thinking 頭あたまが固かたい means a literal hard head. It means stubborn thinking.
  • Using 頭あたまがいい about yourself. It sounds boastful.
  • Reading 先頭せんとう as さきあたま. It is せんとう.
  • Mixing up 頭あたまを下さげる (bow) and 頭あたまが下さがる (to feel deep respect). They differ.

Practice

Try each answer before opening it. Questions 5 and 6 are a pair: a rigid mind versus a flexible one.

1. Say "I hit my head."

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頭あたまをぶつけた。 — 頭あたま.

2. Say casually, "She's smart."

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彼女かのじょは頭あたまがいい。 — 頭あたまがいい.

3. Tell someone to use their head a bit more.

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もっと頭あたまを使つかって。 — 頭あたまを使つかう.

4. Say "The way he said that made me mad."

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あの言い方いいかたは頭あたまに来きた。 — 頭あたまに来くる.

5. Say "My father is set in his ways."

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父ちちは頭あたまが固かたい。 — 頭あたまが固かたい.

6. Say "Kids are flexible thinkers."

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子こどもは頭あたまが柔やわらかい。 — 頭あたまが柔やわらかい. This is the pair to question 5.

7. Say "I bowed my head and apologized."

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頭あたまを下さげて謝あやまった。 — 頭あたまを下さげる.

8. Say you owe your mother too much to ever argue with her.

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母ははには頭あたまが上あがらない。 — 頭あたまが上あがらない.

9. Say "My mind went blank in the interview."

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面接めんせつで頭あたまが真っ白まっしろになった。 — 頭あたまが真っ白まっしろ.

10. Fix: あの言い方いいかたは頭あたまが来きた。

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あの言い方いいかたは頭あたまに来きた。 — 頭あたまに来くる.

FAQ

How do you say "head" in Japanese? 頭あたま (あたま).

What does 頭あたまに来くる mean? To get mad.

What does 頭あたまが固かたい mean? Inflexible, set in one's ways.

What does 頭あたまを下さげる mean? To bow, apologize or humbly ask.

What does 頭あたまが上あがらない mean? To be so indebted you can't stand up to someone.

How do you say "my mind went blank"? 頭あたまが真っ白まっしろになった.

Vocabulary from this article

Tap the block to select all of it, then copy. In Anki: File → Import, note type Basic, separator Tab — the first column becomes the front, the second the back.

頭	あたま — head
頭がいい	あたまがいい — smart
頭を使う	あたまをつかう — to think hard
頭に来る	あたまにくる — to get mad
頭が固い	あたまがかたい — inflexible
頭が柔らかい	あたまがやわらかい — flexible-minded
頭を下げる	あたまをさげる — to bow, apologize
頭が上がらない	あたまがあがらない — to be indebted
頭が真っ白	あたまがまっしろ — mind goes blank
先頭	せんとう — front, lead
面接	めんせつ — interview

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